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KING AMBARISHA

      

             Ambarisha was a king, kind and noble, although he was the ruler of the whole earth and had all the wealth and enjoyments to make a man contended, he cared not for them. For he knew that earthly enjoyments are never lasting and that only the ignorant take delight in them. He was a great devotee of Sri Narayana.

            If ever the Lord had a devotee, it was he. At all times his mind was fixed on the lotus feet of Sri Vishnu. He spoke of nothing but the glories of Vaikuntha. He used his hands to clean Sri Narayana temple; his ears heared only the praises of Sri Narayana. Everywhere he saw the expressions of his divinity; everything he touched reminded him of His devine presence. His nose smelt only the holy fragrance of tulasi, which proceeds from the feet of “Lord Narayana”. His feet walked the places dear to him, and his head was ever bowed at his lotus feet. He enjoyed doing things in the service of Sri Narayana and if he was attached, it was only to those devoted to Him. He offered to Him the fruits of all his actions and thus, by constantly dedicating himself to him, he gradually came to give up all his desires. Sri Vishnu was very pleased with him and gave him His charka for his protection.

          Once, King Ambarisha and his wife undertook a special fast called the Ekadasi Vratha. He practiced special disciplines for a whole year. Towards the end, he fasted for the eleventh day from the new moon or full moon, he used to break the fast on the twelfth day. On this occasion, he bathed in the waters of the Yamuna and worshipped Sri Narayana at Madura. He made gifts of his wealth and cattle to the poor and the needy, and distributed his riches among the Brahmins. Next he fed them all and then asked permission to eat himself. At that very moment “Rishi Durvasa” came there. The King invited him to be his guest. The sage accepted the invitation and then went to the river to bathe and to perform his daily rites.

           When he had finished bathing, the Rishi sat down for meditation and soon became absorbed in it. Thus the time slipped by Ambarisha grew anxious. For if the auspicious hour to break his fast passed away, his vrata would be of avail. If he eats, it would be an insult to an invited guest, and the most wrathful Rishi at that time. (Durvasa was known to have a quick temper). So he decided to compromise by sipping a little water, which the shastras say as both eating and non-eating. This way he broke his fast without meaning any offence to the sage.

           When Durvasa came back and learnt that the King had taken water, he was very angry, for he thought that Ambarisha had done this purposely in his pride as a monarch. He cursed the king and tore up a tuft of hair, which turned into a demon. He then commented the demon to devour him. But Ambarisha remined calm and was not at all afraid. The charka of Sri Vishnu, however, sprang up for the protection of the king. It moved menacingly towards Durvasa, from whom the curse had come. The demon lost all his power because Ambarisha stood unmoved.

             Durvasa ran in all directions in a desparate attempt to save him. But the weapon fallowed him, steadily. At last he ran to Brahma and implored him to save him. Brahma said to him, “Soon, you have offended a Vishnu-bhakta, I can honestly do nothing to save you”.

           Then Durvasa went to Shiva and asked for his help. Shiva looked at him compassionately and replied, “I am powerless to do anything. This weapon is too much for me. You will have to ask Sri Vishnu Himself to help you”.

           The charka was now getting closer to him. In a last bid to escape from the deadly weapon, he appealed to Sri Vishnu for help. Vishnu smiled at him ruefully and said, “Son, I am the slave of my devotees. My heart is in their possession. They cannot live without me and verily I cannot live without them. They are my life as much I am theirs. My devotees forsake their wives, wealth, children and homes for my sake. How can I forsake them in their hour of need? They have given their hearts to me. They give up all desires even that of liberation all for my sake. With their minds calm, they offer all their service unto me. There fore, my child, even I am powerless against the weapon, which has been released by my devotee. There is but one-way for you out of this. Go to him whom you have offended. Beg his pardon. He is sure to forgive you for your offence”.

                Durvasa hurried back to where Ambarisha was and fell at his feet. Ambarisha asked the charka to desist from it’s round of destruction. He showed the Rishi due respect and requested him to come and have his meal. Then Durvasa and Ambarisha had their meal, which had been waiting for so long. Soon after, Ambarisha made over his kingdom to his eldest son and retired to the forest, there to plunge his mind in to meditation upon the Lord.   

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INDEBTED

His Holiness Swamiji Sri Selvam Siddhar

Daily Routine in a Spiritual way

According to the scriptures, each man is indebted in three ways. Our ancient sages have described the means of being free from these three debts. One must not try to avoid or run away from these debts. If a man dies with the debt over his head,, then he will have to clear those debts in his next birth. Therefore a man must clear all these three debts, which are as under.

1. PITRARINA - (Indebtedness towards the Ancestors)
2. RISHIRINA - (Indebtedness towards the Rishi (Sages)
3. DEVA RINA - (Indebtedness towards Deities & God)

1. PITRARINA - A man is fortunate to have a virtuous son, because being a virtuous soul he would perform all the pitrakarma (Shraadh) - offering of water, food, etc. to the Brahmanas. TARPANA - Libation of water to the deceased ancestors, Brahmana-Bhoja - Feeding the Brahmins).

2. RISHI RINA - By doing Tarpana to the Rishis daily, one gets free from the debts, which Rishis have on us.

3. DEVA RINA - By doing worship of the deities we get liberated from DEVA RINA.

The same thing has been said by Sage AASHVAKAAYAN in the following way

ATHOCCHA TE GRIHASTHASYA NITYAKARMA YATHAVIDHI
YATKRITVAANRINYAMAAPNOTI DAIVAAT
PAITTRAYAACCH MAANUSHAAT O

The Nitya Karma of a man is being explained as in the scriptures, by performing which, a man is liberated from the RINA (Debts) which he has towards DEVA, RISHI and PITRA.

"JAAYAMAANO VAI BRAHMANAS TRIBHIRRINVAA JAAYATE"

According to the above shloka which has been derived from TAITIRIYA UPANISHAD means that As soon as a man takes birth, he carries three Rinas over his Head. To get liberated from these three Rina (Debts) performing the NITYA KARMA has claimed to be it's remedy.

There are Six Karmas in the NITYA KARMA

SANDHYAA SNAANAM JAPASHCHAIVA
DEVATAANAAMCHA POOJANAM |
VAISHVADEVAM TATHATITHYAM SHAT KARMAANI DINE DINE ||

(A man should take bath SNAAN, perform SANDHYAA (worship in the evening), Japa (Chanting of Mantras) Devapoojan (Worship of Deities), BALIVAISHVADEVA (repenting atonement for such petty sins which are committed daily and are unavoidable, like we kill infinite number of germs while cooking,walking, cleaning the house etc. There are six Karma to be performed daily.

DUTIES (KRITYA) TO BE PERFORMED BEFORE
HAVING A BATH IN THE MORNING

The scriptures have explained some compulsory duties, which must be performed. Each GRIHASTHA (a householder) should perform these NITYA KARMA. According to the rules given in the scriptures, only after that he is fit to be called a SHAT-KARMA ADHIKAARI (or performer of six duties.)

GETTING UP IN THE BRAMAMUHURTA

A man must get up one and a half hour before Sun Rise. There are many disadvantages of not awaking in that time, described in the scriptures like

BRAAHME MUROORTE YAA NIDRAA SAA PUNYAKSHAYAKAARINEEM,
TAAM KAROTI DVIJO MOHAAT
PAADKRICCHRENSHUDHYATI.

(A sleep during the time of Brahmamuhurta destroys all the virtues, One who sleeps during this time commits a sin, which can be atoned (PRAYASCHIT) by performing PAADAKRICCHA (There is no need for atonement in the case of a sick man or a man who had been performing KEERTANA the previous night.)

KARAAVALOKAN (SEEING THE PALMS)

As soon as one wakes up in the morning, during the Brahmamuhurta period, the first thing he must do is to watch the palms of Both his hands, and say the following SHLOKA.

KARAAGRE VASATE LAKSHAMIH KARMADHYA SARSWATI,
KARMOOLE STHITO BRAHMAA PRABHAATE KARDARSHANAM

(Laxmi dwells in the foremost part of the palm, Saraswati in the middle part of the palm, At the Base of the palm resides Brahma, One must see his palms everyday.)

By doing this act no matter how misfortunate a man is, his fortune will change for good because the palms where Laxmi, Saraswati and Brahma dwells, how can that man be unfortunate? According to Palmistry, great importance have been attributed to the Lines of the palm. The Palmist, not only give the details of Man's life from the time of his birth till his death, but he can also give details about his previous births and forthcoming births.

So seeing the palms of the hand in the morning not only begins a good day for us but also it turns the bad lines into good lines. Therefore one must say the given Shloka while seeing the palms.

BHOOMI VANDANA (SALUTATION TO MOTHER EARTH)

After getting up from the Bed and before keeping your feet down on the Bhoomi (Mother Earth) one should do salutations to Bhoomi and also beg for pardon for the helplessness of putting your feet on her, by saying this shloka.

SAMUDRAVASANE DEVI PARVATASTANMANDITE,
VISHNU PATNI NASTUBHYAM PAADSPARSHAM KSHAMASVAME

(Salutations to the wife of Lord Vishnu, Vasundhara (Earth), whose Vastra (Apparels) are SAMUDRA (Oceans), and whose STANA (Breast) are the Mountains. Forgive me for the sin, by putting my feet upon you.)

The Status of Mother Earth is higher than our own mother, who has given birth to us, because our Mothers look after our welfare till we are grown up i.e. (feeding, Sanitation etc.) but the Mother earth looks after us and care for us, since the time of birth, till we die by nourishing us with food, and accepting even our excrement. Even after being indebted to Mother, Earth, a man acts unfaithfully to her by causing numerous harms to her, like digging, filling the earth with waste products, felling trees etc. To make her sons happy and satisfied, Mother Earth accepts all the pains.

MANGAL DARSHANA (AUSPICIOUS SIGHT)

After the salutations to the Mother Earth sight of Chandana (Sandalwood) Sona (Gold), Shankh (Conch), Mridanga (a Rhythmic musical instrument), Darpana (Mirror), Mani (diamond) are considered Auspicious. After that one should make salutations to his GURU (Teacher, Mother-Father, elders) Agni (Fire) and the Sun (Surya).

PROSTRATION TO MOTHER FATHER AND GURU (TEACHER)

One must daily prostrate before his parents GURU (TEACHER) and all the elders, because according to the VEDAS, Parents and Teachers have been compared with the Devta (Deities) like,

MATRI DEVO BHAVAH, PITRA DEVO BHAVAH,
AACHAARYA DEVO BHAVAH

(Mother, Father and Teacher are deities)

Great importance of Prostration has been described in our scriptures :-

ABHIVAADAN SHEELASYA NITYAM VRIDDHOPASEVINAH,
CHATVAARI TASYA VARADAHANTE AAYURVIDDYA YASHOBAKAMO

(One who is a protractor by nature, and is always in the service of Old (VRIDDHA) (GYAANVRIDDHA (Senior on account of his knowledge), KARMAVRIDDHA- Being Senior on account of his Superior Actions).

AVASTHAVRIDDHA (Senior on account of his Age) achieves four things AAYU (Long-Life) VIDDYA (Knowledge) YASHA (FAME) and BALA (Strength).

These four things have invaluable importance in the life of a Man. A person who possesses all these four things, does not lack anything in the life. Therefore a Man should try to practice Prostration. After the Prostration, it is necessary to purify our minds.

MANTRA FOR PURIFICATION OF MIND
(MAANASIK SHUDDHI MANTRA)

OM APAVITRAH PAVITRO VAA SARVAAVASTHAAM GATOPIVAA,
YAH SMARET PUNDAREEKAAKSHAM SA VAAHYAABHYANTARAHSHUCHI

ATINEEL GHANSHYAAMAM NA KSHINAAYATLOCHANAM
SMARAAMI PUNDAREEKAAKSHAM TEN SNAATOBHAVAAMYAHAM 

One should sprinkle water on his body after saying these two Mantras. By doing this one purifies his body.Then one should remember the Almighty God by doing JAPA (Chanting of Mantras), Kirtan (devotional song) etc according to his liking.

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The worship of Nandhi (The Holy Bull) During various periods.

According to Some Puranas, he was born out of the right side of Vishnu resembling Siva exactly and given as a son to the sage Salankayana. Some purnas mention him as the son of the sage Silada who got him by the grace of Shiva.

It was Nandi who cursed Ravana (the demon King of Lanka) that his kingdom would be burnt by a monkey. And later Hanuman burnt Lanka when he went in search of Sita, who was kept prisoner by Ravana in Ashoka Vatika. In one puranic story, it is stated that once Siva and Parvathi were playing a game of dice. For any game there has to be an umpire, who has to declare the winner. 

Siva and Parvathi agreed to have Nandi (the divine bull) as the umpire. Nandi is a favorite of Siva, as he is Siva's vehicle. Although Siva lost the game, Nandi declared him the winner. It is stated that Parvathi was indignant over Nandi’s partiality for Siva and cursed him that he should die from an incurable disease. Thereupon Nandi fell at the feet of Parvathi and pleaded for forgiveness. "Mother forgive me. Should I not show at least this amount of gratitude to one who is my master? Is it not humiliating for me to declare that my master has lost the game? To uphold his honor I no doubt uttered a lie. But am I to be punished with such severity for so small an offence?" Nandi prayed for forgiveness in this manner. Parvathi forgave Nandi and taught him the means to atone for his lapse. She told him. "The Chaturdasi day in the month of Bhadrapada is the day when my son's birthday is celebrated. On that day you have to offer to my son what pleases you most (green grass)". This means that one atones for one's sins when one offers to the Lord what is most pleasing and enjoyable to him. For Nandi the most enjoyable and relishing food is green grass. As directed by Parvathi Nandi worshipped Ganapathi by offering green grass. Nandi was then relieved of his dreaded disease. His health improved and by the grace of Parvathi he was redeemed.


When the positive forces, the devas, and the negative forces, the asuras, joined together on a rare occasion to churn the ocean with a mountain to obtain the nectar of immortality they utilized Vasuki, the serpent, as the rope. The devas pulled from one end and the asuras from the other. Vasuki was upset during the process of this churning, and vomited up a poison which became human karma. This "poison" was so dangerous that none of the devas or asuras wanted to go near it. It was extremely sticky and coming into contact with this poison, i.e, human karma, would drag the divinity down to the realms of human suffering and ego. As everyone else ran away, Lord Siva, followed by Nandi, came forward to help as he was the only one who could counteract this deadly poison. Siva took the poison into his hand and drank it. Nandi saw some of the poison spill out of Siva's mouth and immediately drank if off the ground. The devas and asuras watching were shocked and wondered aloud what would happen to Nandi. Lord Siva calmed their fears saying, "Nandi has surrendered into me. So he has all my powers and my protection. That day is known as “Pradosham”. If we pray Lord Siva and Nandhi on this day, is sure to bless us with all the things we need inour routinelife.


".A primary god: Nandi as a separate god can be traced back to Indus Valley Civilization, where dairy farming was the most important occupations, thus explaining the appearance of various artifacts indicating a deity much like Lord Siva. This deity also called as Pasupati is believed to have been worshipped as the keeper of herds. Some purans describe Nandi or Nandikeshvara as bull faced human body and that resembles Siva, but with four hands, two hands holding the Parasu (the axe) and Mruga (the antelope) and the other two hands joined together in the Anjali(obeisance). Carrier of Siva: The bull Nandi is Shiva's primary vehicle and is the principal gana (follower) of Shiva. Gate keeper of Siva's place: The close association of Siva and Nandi explains the presence of a statue of Nandi at the gate of many temples dedicated to Siva. It also explains why the word "nandi" in the Telugu and Tamil languages is used as a metaphor for a person blocking the way. In Sanskrit, a bull is called "vrishbha", which has another connotation - that of righteousness or Dharma. It is important to seek the blessings of Nandi before proceeding to worship Lord Siva. Chief in Siva's army: Some Puranas mention that Nandi lead the Siva Ganas, Siva's attendants. A Guru of Saivism: In addition to being his mount, Nandi is Shiva's foremost disciple. In the Natha/Siddhar tradition, Nandi is the one of the primal gurus. He was the guru to Siddhar Thirumulanathar, Patanjalinathar and others.

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“BUDDHA”

Saint Buddha tells that the sufferings of the man kind lies only with the desires. If he actually wins his desire and understands him self, the great fullness of wisdom he could reach. His teachings were accepted by three fourth of the people of the world. But, in his mother country, India there are no much masks of books to his importance, this message notes are prospered to fulfill that need to know about him. This message should reach all over and the people should get the usefullenus of this message.

 The opinions of many scholars on“Buddha”.

1)    As a man born with very brilliant and pure heart. Till to this day I have found no bray upon this world. His services to the humanity are very great and that there is no comparison to him. He lined as a saint with wisdom of action.  Swami Vivekananda

2)    Saint Buddha is not only the light for Asia but also the light for the world crores of people have obtained the usefulness through him .Ramakrishna mutt Chennai.

3)    Buddhism dove to the consciousness of world and his silent approach for justice with the base of non-divulgence, there could be no comparison at all. That has touched my heart very much – Rabindra nath tagoore.

4)    The path showed by “Buddha” will ham to be followed fight genus the destruction of human society – Jawaherlal Nehru

5)    Saint Buddha born as a man and established a religion where there is no egoism built with a complex of superiority and individualism.Humanity and love was the principles. He did it with his own accord and raised himself the questions about life and observed the result to of himself and served to the humanity –Osho –

6)    No cast and community were his realigion. He stressed the need of untouchahlity and followed the way of nonviolent process and established as doctrines to be followed by the mankind – Mahatma Gandhi and Dr.Ambethkar.

                    Buddha showed the path for prosperity of the world

                    About 2500 years back. Buddha born as a son in a Royal family of king Suddhothana. The queen Maya Devi was his mother. His real name was “Siddhartha”. The meaning explains to be the achiever of the thought he wished.

                    When a saint saw the child told that the child would be the saviour of the world. He stated that if the children happen to see the aged or the sick person or the dead body, the moment at which he would reject the earthly life.  After hearing the opinion of the saint, the king arranged a garden in which all kinds of happiness could be prevailed. He brought up the child and prevented his moments with external world. In early youth hood, the marriage was also conducted.

                    

                    But Siddhartha’s eyes were eager to know the world and the society. He went out side the garden and palace. He was actually wondering to look at the beauty of the city. But, he had to see the three events of old age, sickness and death.

                   He came to know that no one could escape from old age, sickness and death because they were facts. His thoughts stimulated with the feelings of curiocity.

                   At his age of twenty nine, he departed from the palace and arrived the city called ‘Gaya’. He made severe penance for six years. The enlightens of facts were his possession. At his age of thirty-five, he had the fullness of wisdom, siddharth then became “Buddha”. For forty-five years, he walked allover and visited several places and explained his views and principles.

                His doctrines were for good people and the bad, for the rich and poor, for the educated and uneducated. He showed no partiality as men and women. He served for the uplift of humanity. With the view to spread the principles through out the world, he established an. association of saints. At his age of eighty, on one full moon day of vaishaka, at the place called ‘Kusinara’ he attained the immortality.  This is called “Mahabari Nirvana”.  His birth and the day of wisdom also took place in the full moon day of vaishaka (MAY-JUN)

               This vaisaka full moon day, granted the purity thrice to saint Buddha.

               His personality was just like that of the and his physique was also compact, his walking was just that of the male elephant, dark and dense hair, black with bluisheyes,beautiful mouth with pearl like teeth, charming face and with sweet voice. He ruled the hearts of people, kings and saints. He had the power in physique and the confidence in his heart and the purity and strait for wardens in action. Based either on epics or morels of the ancestors, he followed nothing; he did it with the references of what the matters observed and noticed by eyes. His teachings were based on sensitiveness of reality. Human beings’ sixth sense should play the role of acceptance. Sri Vivekananda has also pointed out his vien about Buddha as below that way.

“He was the first who dared to say as believe not because old manuscripts are produced, not because it is your national belief, because you have been

made to beliefs from your childhood, but reason it, all out and after you have analysed it, then if you find that, it will do good to one and all,believe it, live up to it and keep others to live up to it.

                    

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 STRESS MANAGEMENT THROUGH YOGA FOR BANK EXECUTIVIES

Introduction

Stress:  Stress defined by selye  as  “the force, pressure, or strain exerted upon a material object or person which result these forces and attempt to maintains its original state”. Stress is ubiquitous in our society. It has become an integrate part of everyday living. Researchers on stress make it clear that, to enter in to the complex area of stress make it clear that, to enter in to the complex area of stress, especially in to the area of occupational stress, is very difficult. Stress is an unavoidable consequence of modern living. Stress has harmful psychological and physiological effects on employees and executives; stress is a major cause of employees can affect the safety of other employees, by controlling dysfunctional stress, individual    and organization can b e managed more effectively.  

Banking sector and stress

         During the past decade the banking sector had under gone rapid and striking changes like policy change due to globalization and liberalization, introduction of new technologies etc. Due to these changes, the executives and employees in the banking sector is experiencing a high level of stress. Occupational stress is an increasingly important occupational health problem and a significant cause of economic loss. Occupational and physiologic disabilities. However it may also cause subtle manifestation of morbidity that can affect personal well being and productivity. A job stressed executives and employees are greater job dissatisfaction, increased absenteeism, increased frequency of drinking and soaking, increase in negative psychological symptoms and reduced aspiration and self esteem.  

          Various techniques in yoga help in stress management. These techniques work at an individual level and also at a collective level of ensure that there is significant respite from the conditions of extreme stress. They help in relieving the physical as well as   the psychological negative effectors   of the problem by ensuring a healthy and productive response to the stress stimuli.      

          Yoga can have a positive effect on the parasympathetic nervous system and aid in lowering heart beat and blood pressure. This reduces the demand of the body for oxygen. Yoga can also improve digestion, strengthen immunity, and help in effective culminating of toxic wastes and also increase lung capacity effective use of this practice can also reduce the chances of stress culminating in anxiety and depression.

          The practice of yoga involves forming various body postures, slow stretching movements breathing exercises that can at times lead to progressive relaxation, imagery and meditation. All these specific techniques are meant for a specific purpose and they culminate in to a higher awareness of that is happening to oneself during stress emotionally, physically mentally and energetically,   are develops an understanding of each part of the body by being more aware of it. The practice includes paying attention to each and every part and therefore, ensures a holistic therapy. The start of practice is with becoming aware of  what the stressful stimuli  is so that one knows what are is fighting, understanding the enemy is an important factor in combat and similarly in a understanding the factors that cause stress can  help you in deciding how if needs to be tackled. Yoga enables and empowers you to control the natural and immediate reactions to a stress. With practice the psychological responses can also be mastered. This means that the previous reaction that put the body in an alert or alarm mode to not take over as soon as a stressful situation occurs.     .

          And this leads to a situation where is irrespective of the challenges you face, you remain calm, composed and capable of talking the situation with a level head.

Conclusion

        The productivity of the work force is the most decisive factor as far as the success of an organization is concerned. The productivity   in turn is dependent the psychosocial well being of the executives employees. In an age of highly dynamic and competitive world, man is exposed to all kinds of stressors that can affect him on all realms of life. Yoga is the only way to tackle work pressure; it has helped them to overcome stress and strain.   

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 Marriage Compatibility      -   His Holiness Swamiji Sri Selvam Siddhar

 

 

Atharva  Vedic Astrological compatibility is the branch of astrology that studies relationships by comparing natal horoscopes. A natal horoscope is a chart, map, or a snapshot of the planets in the Solar System and their positions in the zodiac at the time of a person's birth. The signs of the Zodiac represent 12 different types of spiritual energy and purpose. The planets in the Solar System are associated with at least one, but most often two signs of the zodiac.

 

When one knows that one has feelings for a person that one thinks that will lead to marriage then my humble advice is to seek a reputable astrologer to check if the marriage would stand the test of time...

 

Compatibility in Indian astrology

 

The Hindu/Indian system of examining compatibility based on horoscopes of the aspirant couple is unique. Horoscope matching is an art of the highest ingenuity of an astrologer. The fundamental concept of matching horoscopes emanates from constellations occupied by the Moon at the time of births of bride and groom. Individuals inherit qualities of the birth constellation. Various constellations represent different natures in respect of their casts, animals presented by them, sex, Gana (God / man / demon), humour, birds ruled, primordial elements, Gotra, directions ruled, consonants and vowels, mutual harmony and repulsion with certain stars, beneficence to the other stars by virtue of mutual distance etc.

 

In addition, a host of other factors such as longevity of the individuals, character (sexual), widowhood, poverty, progeny, body status, radical strengths and indications, planetary nature and afflictions, currency of major and minor periods, Marakaas (death inflicting planets), placement of Mars in their nativity (Mangal Dosha), antidotes, propitiations, auspicious time for marriage etc. should be examined to arrive at a suitable union of the couple.

 

Based on the birth constellations, the following aspects are examined and are given importance and are assigned numeric values - Varna (1 point), Vashya (2 Points), Tara (3 points), Yoni (4 points), Graha Maitri (5 points), Gana (6 points), Bhakoota (7 points) and Nadi (8 points). The total of these factors adds up to 36 points and a horoscope is considered to be matched only if the compatibility score is more than 18 or 50%.

 

Significance of various aspects in compatibility are as follows:

 

Varna : Grade of spiritual development, obedience

Vashya : Mutual control – friendship.

Tara : Mutual beneficence-luck-auspiciousness

Yoni : Sexual aspects, affinity, urge, compatibility.

Graha Maitri : Psychological disposition, friendship.

Gana : Nature: Dev – Manush – Raakshas

Bhakoota : Children, growth of family.

Nadi: Temperaments, hereditary (Atharva Vedic Astrological), affliction and death to other

 

Based on the above aspects, mathematical computation is performed to find a match. The astrologer has to use his skills in examining compatibility. It is felt essential to match the horoscopes before further marriage negotiations are done. The above system is in practice for thousands of years in India.

 

Vedic astrology is very precise and even when Lord Krsna appeared on this planet, the astrologers were consulted… Hindu/Indian astrologers mainly use the Brihat Parashara Hora Sastra – The Hindu Astrology Textbook. Firstly the compatibility is only a guideline to a relationship and that has been made clear to the reader in the book. If one is compatible then that relationship can transform into something special like marriage. If one is compatible then that relationship/marriage has a foundation and when there’s a foundation then there’s stability in the marriage…

 

On the other hand if there’s incompatibility between the couple then that relationship/marriage has no foundation and thus already before the marriage even begins the relationship is not on steady ground. So one has to work even harder to make the marriage work. But to make some feel a little better.. I have seen compatibility charts where the couple was not compatible and they still remain married for years and never divorced… yet couple that where over 80% compatible divorced…why you may ask its because “NO MATTER HOW COMPATIBILE YOU BOTH ARE OR NOT YOU BOTH HAVE TO COMPROMISE TO MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK.” Couples don’t compromise these days and hence divorce rates are skyrocketing.

 

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

 

During one of a seminar, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered, "How do you know?"

 

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

 

Here's the answer. EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

 

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. 

 

Falling in love  easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

 

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

 

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

 

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

 

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy and most importantly, it take WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

 

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. ..You can "make" love.

 

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision". . Not just a feeling.

 

Remember this always "God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."

 

Love is not the smooth ride you expect. It’s like a car with one bad tire. You’re always having to hold onto the wheel to keep that car on the right road, to keep it from driving you both into the ditch. I know you think we had the perfect marriage, that we were as matched as two socks. But what you saw was the result of sixty years of holding on to that wheel—with two pairs of hands. One person isn’t strong enough to do it, although there will be days when you’ll feel like you’re the only one steering that car. Trust in your love. And trust that during the tough days ahead—and there will be tough days, just as there will be days so wonderful you will think you have kissed the edge of heaven—trust that the other three wheels will carry you.”

 

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed. The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised. That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him, the way he had hidden his best marble.

 

Moral of the story: If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given their hundred percent... whether in love, friendship, professional relationships, or indeed in anything you do. Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.

 

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PEACE (SHANTHI ) MANTRA MEANING

Asato maa, Sadgamayaa
Tamaso maa, Jyotirgamayaa ;
Mrityor maa, Amritam Gamayaa.

Asato-Maa, Sad Gamaya - From untruth to Truth! Untruth is the death of the ego. The Truth is eternal and immortal. So once you are part of the Truth, there is no question of death at all. My friends, the third barrier stopping enlightenment is the barrier of ego. Therefore, to experience God, we should see that the ego dies as early as possible.

Tamasoma, Jyotir Gamaya - There lies the light of wisdom. Tamas is the darkness. Jyoti is the light. With light, darkness is dispelled. Darkness is death. The light is Truth, Bliss, Peace. The light is eternal.

Mrityor maa, Amritam Gamayaa - Lead me from death to immortality through purity of purpose.

We are birthless, deathless and eternal; we are Truth itself. We celebrate birthdays because, having enough money, we want to have a social function. We enjoy it for a while, happily arranging it. Happy Birthday! But actually you were never born. It is only the body that appeared. That's all! You existed even before the existence of this body.

SWamiji  gives this beautiful example: There is electricity everywhere. But when it is inside the electric light bulb, it sheds light. When the bulb is removed, the electricity is still there, is that not so? So, electricity is ever-present. When the bulb is fixed, you get illumination. When the bulb is removed, you don't get illumination. With the bulb or without the bulb, electricity exists. You are Divine energy. You are Cosmic energy. You are the eternal Truth. The bulb is the body. That's all!

SAHANAVAVATU (PEACE) MANTRA - ITS MEANING, SUMMARY

The "Sahanavavatu mantra" is one of the shaanti (peace) mantras which has its origins in the Taittiriya Upanisad. This mantra is often used as a "universal" prayer, to send the message of peace and prosperity. The mantra may also be used to invoke God's blessings for harmony amongst teacher(s) and student(s).

AUM saha navavatu, saha nau bhunaktu
Saha veeryam karvaavahai
Tejasvi naa vadhita mastu
maa vid vishaa va hai
AUM shaantih, shaantih, shaantih.

Meaning of the Sahanavavatu Mantra

Let us together (-saha) be protected (-na vavatu) and let us together be nourished (-bhunaktu) by God's blessings. Let us together join our mental forces in strength (-veeryam) for the benefit of humanity (-karvaa vahai). Let our efforts at learning be luminous (-tejasvi) and filled with joy, and endowed with the force of purpose (-vadhita mastu). Let us never (-maa) be poisoned (-vishaa) with the seeds of hatred for anyone. Let there be peace and serenity (-shaantih) in all the three universes.

This mantra highlights the nature of the teacher-student relationship that produces ideal results for the student. The transference of mental, spiritual and intellectual energies from the teacher to the student can be achieved through a mutually nourishing relationship which is based on (mutual) respect, joy (of giving and receiving), and absence of malice or negative thoughts.

The transliterated version of the Sahanavavatu mantra is now presented. This transliteration is based on itrans.

AUM sah nAvavatu sah nau bhunaktusah vIry.n karvAvahai.tejasvi nAvadhItamastumA vidviShAvahai..AUM shAntiH shAntiH shAntiH..

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1.Man did not weave the web of life, he is merely a strand in it

2.Whatever he does to the web, he does to himself

 

3.When the winds of change blow, some people build walls and others build windmills

 

4.Knowing others is intelligence. Knowing yourself is true wisdom

 

5.When one experiences truth, the madness of finding fault with others disappears.

 

6.God dwells in the heart of all being, Arjuna, thy God dwells in thy heart. And his power of wonder moves all things - puppets in a play of shadows - whirling them onwards on the stream of times.

 

7.Seeing into darkness is clarity

8.Knowing how to yield is strength.

 

9.The mind is everything; what you think, you become.                                        

 

10.You must be the change that you wish to see in the world

 

11.They must change often, who would be constant in happiness

 

12.Change is not something that we should fear.

13.Rather, it is something that we should welcome.

14.For without change, nothing in this world would ever grow or blossom, 

and no one in this world would ever move forward to become the person they’re meant to be.

 

15.Peace will not come out of a clash of arms but out of justice lived and done by unarmed nations in the face of odds

 

16.Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now.

 

17.If not now, when?

 

18.No one is wise by birth, for wisdom results from one own's efforts

 

19.Food brings benefit for some hours, clothes for some months but wisdom lasts as long as the mind itself. It is the foundation of a better society.

 

20.Love is patient and kind. It is not jealous nor conceited nor proud; love is not ill-mannered, it does not seek its own advantage and is not irritable. Love does not keep a record of wrong, is not happy with evil, but rejoice in the truth. Love is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope and to endure.

 

21.Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate

22.Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. 

We ask ourselves, "Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?"

 

23.Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God; your playing small doesn't serve the world.

24.Who sees all being in his own self, and his own self in all beings, loses all fear

 

25.Our deepest fears are like dragons guarding our deepest treasure.

 

26.Expect nothing and the little you get will feel like millions

 

27.Perseverance furthers

 

28.Strong men know not despair Arjuna, for this wins them neither heaven nor earth

 

29.Nothing really worth having comes quickly and easily; 

If it did, I doubt that we would ever grow.

 

30.There are ways to learn what's inside you. We have all cried for ourselves a little, that's natural, but don't let it go on for too long. That's a child's way.

 

31.One doesn’t become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious. The latter procedure, however, is disagreeable, and therefore not popular.

 

32.Love is the extension of one self for another

 

33.Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery, today is a gift, that's why they call it present...

 

34.Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a giant tree, in the midst of them all.

35.Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart 

36.To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart

37.If someone betrays you once, it is his fault; if he betrays you twice, it is your fault.

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people.

38.Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself.

 

39.The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.

 

40.A life whish is whole, noble and full of clarity is an imperative for survival. It is not a utopia nor a luxury, but a necessity

 

41.Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism; the way you play is your own will.

 

42.Nowhere has the creator designed any gem other than women. For, this gem gives delight to men, when it is heard of, seen, touched or even remembered; for its sake are done meritorious deeds, and wealth amassed; and from that alone do men derive worldly pleasures and offspring. Such women are indeed the Goddesses of fortune living in mortal abodes. Hence they ought to be honored always with respect and wealth.

 

43.It is true that there is light in the end of every tunnel. 

But there need not be any light in the end if you blindly believe that you are in the tunnel

 

44.Better than the one who knows what is right is the one who loves what is right.

 

45.In your actions and in your conversation do no idle thing. Speak not idle talk neither gossip...and do not give way to evil behavior.

 

46.Life isn’t measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.

 

47.Anyone who practices can obtain success in yoga but not one who is lazy. Constant practice alone is the secret of success.

 

48.The body is your temple. Keep it pure and clean for the soul to reside in.

 

49.Undisturbed calmness of mind is attained by cultivating friendliness toward the happy, compassion for the unhappy, delight in the virtuous, and indifference toward the wicked.

 

50.When the breath wanders the mind also is unsteady. But when the breath is calmed the mind too will be still, and the yogi achieves long life. Therefore, one should learn to control the breath.

 

51.Yoga exists in the world because everything is linked

 

52.Do your practice and all is coming

 

53.Before you've practiced, the theory is useless. After you've practiced, the theory is obvious.

 

54.This calm steadiness of the senses is called yoga. Then one should become watchful, becomes yoga comes and go

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